Human is not self-sufficient. To that matter nothing living in this World is. Interdependence is the “Word”.
Every living creature is suckled from Birth and taken care of till we can stand on our feet (with few exceptions). Nature is designed such a way that all Living creatures are interdependent. Call it Food Cycle, call it co-existence, call it Nature – the truth we are not self-sufficient and we all need support.
However, when it comes to relationships, the equation differs.
A person’s character is the sum total of the experiences that he/she had in life and what they chose to absorb. When it comes to relationships there are certain expectations from the other person. Unfortunately there is no set rule or criteria for the expectations. It varies from person to person. And also the intensity of the expectations!
This combination of the expectations and intensity of the same is what makes us look for the “Special Someone”. In olden days we had match makers and now technology has made it easier bringing the World together so we have more opportunity of finding our perfect match. Probably, there is nothing called a “Perfect Match”. Most of the times, there are adjustments done from both ends and a partnership for life is forged! That is the secret mantra for most of the relationships.
Having said that, there are certain individuals who are more rigid than most and their expectations from the “other” cannot be adjusted. These individuals – if “Lucky” find their match and if not, prefer to wait than to adjust. Now – the part of not being able to adjust – Right / Wrong again depends on kind of qualities they are looking for and if they are justified.
If such a match is not found and an individual decides to stay single, I feel – it’s their right to be! All we can hope for is that they find that “Special Someone” crosses their path at the earliest possible!
Someone somewhere is made for Everyone!!