When we lose a Loved One, it feels as if there is nothing else to live for. The void created by the loss is like a vacuum that sucks every ounce of strength and the will to continue our existence.
But then do we forego the rest that Love and care for us? It might be a common feeling at that juncture to let go of everything however we need to find out inner strength and learn to move on. Life had to go on - no matter what.
A spouse grieving the demise of better half cannot go on forever. Of it does, they have to remember that they are not fulfilling their duties. This lack of responsibility can cause severe damage to the growth of offspring and to the society as well in matter of years.
A parent grieving for child, a sibling grieving for the other, a friend grieving, a child grieving for a parent are just some of the ways Life can test us.
Does grieving only mean letting your life take a setback because you are mourning?? Does it have to be a negative feeling?? Would you remember the loved one for the good he / she did in life or that things turned out negative on their demise.
So why would you put yourself through the ordeal of self inflicted pain and share the same to people around you.
Would it be too bad to spread joy and happiness in honor of the loved one? Help someone in their life to honor and show your gratitude of the memories your loved one has left for you.
Shed tear and make others shed the same - not in void of loss but with the Hope that their life had given you! Let the tear be of remembrance and love and let it pave its way towards your smile and many more to follow.